Sometimes it seems like I can make that extra push to do for others but not for myself.

I remember when I was a leader in a large spiritual organization and was very active in supporting and taking care of the members

I was at this huge convention . . . running around taking care of business . . . making sure the members had all that they needed

I was standing on a balcony looking out over the crowd when I felt a deep wave of sadness and heard this small inner voice say . . . but what about me?

I felt tears well up in that moment because even though I was in the center of things . . . I felt so alone . . . so tired . . . so unappreciated . . .  and disconnected.

In the midst of doing and taking care of others I had abandoned myself

Have you ever abandoned your needs because your felt others were more important?

We have to take the time and make that extra effort to care for our selves and our bodies. . . for We Are Important TOO!

Come take some time for YOU at the Women of Color Healing Circle . . . give yourself some Me Time and Come Home to Yourself!

How About You?

What You Gonna Do Next Year?

Do You Have A Vision or Feeling of Where Life is Leading You?

Come to the Women of Color Healing Circle

Let's get in our Bodies

Clear out the Fear

And Open to Receive our Next Step

Saturday Oct 9, 2021 10:30 AM ~ 12:30 PM  Pacific Time (US and Canada)

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As an Empath what has been the hardest learning for me is discernment . . . knowing when to just be still, hold space, do nothing or excuse myself and walk away . . .

  I once found myself in a work situation in which I was spending time, with a woman who had various aches, and ailments . . . and she loved to talk about it.  We were at a training together and at lunch I told her some healing techniques and of course I did some unconscious healing.   The next day of the training, she wouldn’t even look my way . . . I had a terrible headache . . . and was tired and grouchy.  When I later checked in with Spirit and asked what had happened, and why the lady was being so rude to me.  I found out that she was on a soul assignment to understand the purpose and function of pain and how to heal it.  It was not my job to heal it for her so I received a psychic whack from her . . . it's like someone energetically hitting, pushing or slapping you very hard, sometimes leaving tears or dark holes in your energy field. . . and I had also picked up some of her ailments.

Have you ever found yourself in a situation like this?

When you do for others and it is really not appreciated . . . in fact you may get punished like I was.  That is when we look at ourselves and others through the Heart of Compassion . . . as we learn the Art of Discernment.

Much Love, Lela

  • Lela Loyce MA
  • Women’s Empowerment & Intuitive Life Coach
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